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 But if it is thought well always there will be a goal superior to that to aspire, by what there is reached the level that is reached, the sensation of dissatisfaction always will be there, since we will aspire to a top level.
Therefore if the happiness is compared with the success, we will never reach this level wished to be happy. With this I do not want to say that the success should be bad, but it is not necessary to to be the unique one and more important condition to reach the happiness.
This way, a way of reinforcing this idea is that after having spoken with several persons who have obtained the success, it turns out that those who declare themselves happy already it were before obtaining the success, and those who are defined as poor devils it were also before reaching it.
The certain thing is that there are very good reasons to wish the success. It is healthy to wish to value the work that we have realized or to have a good economic stability that allows us to live calmly with our family, but what is not healthy is to identify the happiness only with it. The success is the success and him happiness is the happiness.
We must not identify the success only with material or professional values, since this if that is not comparable to the happiness.
Also there exists another type of success that is more nearby and comparable to the happiness. It is the success that is related to the personal satisfactory relations, suitable education of our children, to win in wisdom day after day, success in each and every of the slopes of the love, etc. This type of success is in the habit of being less mentioned, though it turns out to be even more important than the previous one.
Probably the first type of success is more showy to the first sight, though the ideal thing would be to find a balance between both, being able to differentiate what is the success, and what is the happiness.
As for the amusement, if we look at the world from the prism of a child, really we will relate the happiness to the amusement. And for many adults this also is like that.
Yes that is true that the entertainments as going to the cinema, to be present at a football match or to see the television, play a role important and constructivly in the life, since they can help us to support the happiness, they make us laugh and it helps us relax. Though the act in if same it does not create happiness, yes that helps us her support.
What yes is true is that the life is full of tension, routine, weariness … Is because of it that the paper of the amusement must be born in mind, since it serves us as a form of liberation.
So we have to try to introduce the amusement in more daily activities, to be able to entertain and enjoy while we do really significant things. Since it might be be employed at our profession, extract to ahead our family, etc.
As conclusion would say that it is necessary to look for a good balance that allows us to have an as full as possible life in all the aspects. Without neglecting any of them.
Blanca Valencia
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